Review & GIVEAWAY: When Did I Get Like This? by Amy Wilson

When Did I Get Like This?Summary: Over the last seven years of long days with little children, I have had many moments of joy, calm, and peaceful reverie.

This book is about the other moments.

Before I became a mother, failing at something did not shake my fundamental belief in my capabilities as a human being. But now that I am the mother of three children under the age of seven, I have one overriding daily thought: I suck at this.

What kind of mother feeds her kids dinosaur chicken nuggets? Three times a week? What kind of mother lets hand washing after using the toilet slide, as long as it was just Number One? And then I wonder: When did I get like this? Why do I doubt my parenting abilities, day after day? Why does motherhood, a job as old as Eve, have me teetering daily on the edge of sanity?

With each new stage of motherhood, I tell myself I will never again be suckered by the question, “Don’t you want what’s best for your children?” And yet, time after time, I am. Sometimes, I am right to obsess. Other times, the record will show, it has been distinctly counterproductive.

I’m working on it . . .

My Thoughts: I absolutely love this book! LOVE it! Every mother who has ever felt like she has fell short of her own ideals for herself as a mother NEEDS to read this! It is hilarious, had me smiling and shaking my head in agreement in so many places. There were many, many parts of this that I could completely relate to. From her thoughts on modesty after having given birth and breastfeeding to her description of her husband’s ability to make big decisions, there was something in each chapter that could have come straight out of my own life!

And then there’s the issues with her first child. Who after a couple of weeks becomes quite the screamer. Um, yeah, my oldest was the same way. Except there was no medical explanation for it. No reflux, no colic. Just something she had to outgrow. But, as the author discusses the difficulty of having such a screamer, I could relate on every single level. Leaving the house with her was a scary prospect. People would tell me she must be hungry, when I knew that wasn’t it. Stuff like that. (This book TOTALLY brought back so many memories! LOL)

Not only are there plenty of laugh-worthy anecdotes, but there are also moments of reflection and even insights that made me rethink some of my own approaches to things. Approaches that I often consider my own failings. Big one: yelling. Like the author, I have decided to work at not yelling so much – saving that for the big things so it doesn’t lose its effectiveness when it’s most needed. (Like, when the kids are about to run out into a busy street …)

Anyway, I would HIGHLY recommend this for any mother who occasionally wonders about herself. Wondering how she got so far away from where she thought she’d be – who she thought she’d be. This will make you laugh, smile, and realize that you are most definitely not alone.

Favorite Quotes: There are so many quotes from this book that I had marked that it’s hard for me to pick! LOL But, here are a couple that resonated with me in one way or another.

As a mother, there are only two things of which I am ever certain: (1) I have somehow eluded detection and have been given three children for whose care I am remarkably unqualified, and (2) every decision I make for these small, helpless beings is of the utmost, life-altering importance. ~ page 8

There is a certain evil muscle memory that occurs in the body of a woman who has been pregnant before. “Oh, this again,” your abs say, and surrender immediately, rather than fighting the good fight for twenty-five weeks like they did the first time around. ~ page 33

If you were to piece together our family’s story based on our photos, you would think that our three children had raised themselves and some scary sweaty fat lady stopped by once or twice a year. ~ page 88

The things a mother does well are always invisible compared to the things she does badly. ~ page 165

My Rating: 5 stars

Source: Received as part of a blog tour promotion on TLC Book Tours.

Read It: Get your own copy HERE. (This is a Book Depository link, and purchase through this link will result in my receiving a small commission at no cost to you. Your support is appreciated!)

Amy WilsonAbout the Author: Amy Wilson is the author and performer of the one-woman show Mother Load, which started off-Broadway, and has been touring the country ever since. She made her Broadway debut in the Tony-Award-winning play The Last Night of Ballyhoo, and has appeared in dozens of other plays in New York City. On television, she was a series regular on Norm and Daddio, and appeared on Felicity, Ed, Law and Order: Criminal Intent, Deadline, Boston Common, and All My Children. Her film credits include Kinsey, Kissing Jessica Stein, Keeping the Faith, and Ira and Abby.

Her writing appears regularly in Babytalk magazine, on, and on’s “Living” page. Her favorite productions are her three young children, whom she raises with her husband in New York City.

Connect with Amy:

Find out more about Mother Load via the blog, Facebook, and website.

Tour Info: For the main page for this blog tour, including more reviews of this book on other blogs, visit TLC’s post.

Challenges: Counts for 100 Books in a Year Reading Challenge 2011.

This review is part of Book Review Party Wednesday.


*****WIN IT*****

Thanks to author Amy Wilson, I am able to offer 1 copy of When Did I Get Like This? to one lucky reader! I do not require anything in order for you to enter. Simply leave a comment to this post. ONE ENTRY PER PERSON.

Entries will be accepted until 11:59 p.m. (Central) Saturday, June 4, 2011. The winner will be chosen randomly with the help of I will send the lucky winner an e-mail notification. (It will come from proudbooknerd(at)gmail(dot)com, so make sure to add this address to your safe list or address book to ensure it doesn’t get lost in junk/bulk mail.) If I do not get a response within 48 hours, a new winner will be chosen. Unfortunately, this giveaway is only open to readers in the U.S.

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  1. Sounds like a great book. This quote makes it a must read:

    If you were to piece together our family’s story based on our photos, you would think that our three children had raised themselves and some scary sweaty fat lady stopped by once or twice a year. ~ page 88

    Too funny!
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  2. I am sure I will enjoy this book.. Awesome review! Please sign me in
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  3. Sounds like a great read – even though my kids are grown I would love to read it!
    Thanks for hosting –

  4. Vidisha
    Twitter: sweetvidisha

    This sounds like a great read….

  5. Michele says:

    Sound’s like a fantastic book!

  6. Linda Kish says:

    I would love to read this book.

    lkish77123 at gmail dot com

  7. Mona Garg says:

    I love books, both fiction and non-fiction, involving children and parenting. This sounds like a fun read.

  8. Cathy W says:

    Sounds like a fun read.

  9. You gave it a 5 star rating, it must be good. I would love to read it.

  10. Heather says:

    Very much looking forward to reading this book!

  11. Michele says:

    This sounds like a great book!

  12. Krystal Larson says:

    I love the review and summary :) Thank you so much for hosting this giveaway, edysicecreamlover18@gmailDOTcom

  13. I completely agree! I loved this book and related thoroughly. I think the funniest and most uncanny part was her description of how hosting the preschool class mascot (was it a teddy bear?) for the weekend — and having to make a scarpbook about it — created stress. I had that exact experience!!

    • ham1299
      Twitter: ProudBookNerd

      Yes! A stuffed pig! LOL I could relate. We did that with my oldest in preschool AND kindergarten. I found that HILARIOUS! LMAO

  14. Tracy Robertson says:

    This sounds like a fun read!

  15. This book looks great. There have been many times when I felt like I fell short, and I could use some encouragement.

  16. It’s so great that you link up to other sites because I haven’t seen this book yet. I’m adding it to my to-read list. Thanks for sharing. You have a great site by the way. I’m now a follower.
    Stopping by via Cym Lowell
    Thanks again,
    Virginia Bell
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  17. Yup. The older my children get the more incompetent I feel, and I have eight children. So there’s a lot of incompetence to spread around to a lot of little people. My youngest is nine, and I’ve about given up and decided to let let wolves raise her. I’d like to read about someone who feels as inadequate as I do.
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  18. I’m not usually a fan of books like this but I just KNOW I’d really enjoy this one – I think I’d be able to relate to the author VERY much. :)

    Thanks so much for being on the tour. I’m glad you can recommend this book so highly!!!

  19. Marjie Pride says:

    Sounds just like me!

  20. SweetestLittleBookworm
    Twitter: BookwormAsheley

    When I first saw this book, the dinosaur chicken nugget thing was the thing that caught my eye…because that is totally me for the past several years with each of my three children. My children will ONLY eat the ones in the shape of dinosaurs. Go figure! But this is the first review/honest opinion of the book I’ve seen, and it makes me want it exponentially more. The quotes sealed the deal. I need this book! I love knowing that there is somebody else out there, just like me. 😉
    ~Asheley T.

  21. Okay, I admit that as a first time parent I have really lofty aspirations of being the perfect Mom. Four months in, and all I can say is that I have already lost my mommy of the year award. And I’m now secretly concerned that I may in fact be the scary sweaty fat lady who’s raising this child. I’d love to win this book!

    Lbrouse1 at gmail dot com

  22. Would love to share w/ my friends still in early parenthood–not to frighten but to comfort.

  23. Denise Z says:

    There is always room to take stock in our parenting and generally managing our lives. I really helps to have a little humor and to see we are not alone! Thank you for the opportunity to win this book.

  24. Kerrie Mayans says:

    This book is at the top of my must read this summer book list.

  25. thanks for the chance to read this great book :)


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